Bethy, it's a good sign that hubby is seeing a therapist, too. Maybe he'll begin to understand how hard you are working.

If he's being so hard on you and you don't see things improving with him, maybe you need a separation for the time being, so you can get yourself on your feet.

There's a possibility that you don't love him as much as you think you do. It could be hurting so much because he's critisizing you and expecting so much out of you. He's making you feel like you're worthless because you're not Martha Stewart.

Maybe you can hang in for a while and see if he doesn't improve some. If not, then keep yourself safe where you can get better without all that pressure on you. You need kindness and understanding and he's not giving it to you.

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