Life does suck but dont be frustrated against people who have suffered and are opening up to others....for that too can cause a backward effect. I believe we need to breath when we reach out to help people. Helping people does have a impact on oneself. However dont take it out on anyone when you as a helper gets frustrated cause people dont do what you think they should do. I know we all are human beings but we all react differently when being helped and opening up with such painful memories. You should never expect a person to respond accordingly to what you think or what the manuals say....Its a one on one basis....A step by step process........needing unconditional love and unconditional understanding. We all react differently to the many situations in life. We all are great people and deserve the most up most respect in regards to any situation we experience in life. One day at a time ......and when its to much to handle ......One moment at a time works better....Love you all.....Learn to be refreshed when reaching out to those tender hearts! Ms.Robin