Doesn't it depend on which side of the divorce you are on???? I know that sounds stupid, but I am the one that decided it was the only answer & am the one pushing it through with a husband that wouldn't get divorced if I didn't do all the work to make it happen even though he agrees that divorce is the only answer too (I think). I can't imagine feeling grief...but maybe when it is final I will. I know I will be trading one set of stresses for another of being alone & having to take care of myself & all my dogs & horses.

Debbie