(((((((((((((catgirl)))))))))))))))
yes i too agree that grief is a part of divorce..i know myself i have gone through alot of the stages...anger saddness etc..i myself yet to get my divorce..but i know it is the only way for me to be healthy. so this was my choice..i feel alot of the feeling of grief for my children..i even feel blame,but i just coudlnt do the alchol thing anymore ..he recently had surgery..i always took care of him i cant tell you the guilt i had for not being there to take care of him..but its not my job anymore...what mixed emotions i have been feeling..There is alot more id like to say but cant seem to put the words together right now...Sending you support and best wishes ........sherry