((((kellyo9040))))

Sorry tonight was so hard for you. I know that arguing is very difficult. And I am sorry you have had to go through this. Know that you are not alone in this world. We are here and we are listening. I know we are not there in real life but we are here walking this road with you.

It is hard as many times others do not get what we are going through. They do understand how we feel. Sometimes it is hard for them to see if they are not going through it or have not walked where we are walking.

Try to breathe. I know it is not easy. Whenever I get into an arguement it makes me very upset. And I have to remind myself to breathe. I have had to learn to be patient and give that person their space. And I have had to know that is not the end of the world if we have an arguement.

I try to remember that sometimes things are said that are taken out of what is meant by them because there is a misunderstanding. And misunderstandings can be worked out. Take time to reflect on what happened and maybe there is something there that you need to think on.

I know it is hard. It seems like forever when I wait. It is so hard. And I validate what you are feeling. I hope you will be kind to yourself. Things will work out. Thank you for posting and for sharing. We are here for you and listening. And we care. Sending gentle hugs.

dps