Hi all,

I have investigated the claims that he made.. right down to phone records, bank statements along with people at his work.

He only started dating her on the 17th of November - a dinner is all it was. This was well and trully after he had ended it with me.

I have hard proof of this and it's what I needed to be able to move on. It's a relief to tell the truth. To know that the man I once loved is as honarable as I thought he was.

He came over today and supplied me with the bank stff (which I had alreasy go from the internet anyway) I needed along with a time line of when it happened.

He cares a great deal for me - lke he said it was a wonderful 5 years, the only 5 year relationship he has ever had, with a woman he loved.

I have no answer to 'falling out of love' it jst happened. Yes I think we could have tried harder to save it (he could have anyway) but that doesn't change anything now.

I can move on knowing that I didn't misjudge his character, what he felt for me and have no regrets to the time spent with each other.

As for his new missus.... Time will tell. He thinks he loves her and if he does good luck to them both. Personally I have a feeling it wont last.