I have the same issues too! I have a teen (Katrina) a lil called (little Susie) and a few who i know are there but no names. I have a few different personality's, a coping side, a protector and a very emotional messed up side. I don't have much memory loss and i can engage with them and control them if i don't want them to come out. They have different ways of dressing and different likes. I always say i have not got DID because i can remember what my alters say and do. My therapist says that can be possible, and that not everyone with DID is as severe a case as Sybil in the film, Where she had no control or remember what her alters said or did. don't know if this makes sense to you but its sounds maybe you have similar to me.