totally agreed auroralso. A lot of people don't think of emotional involvement as cheating but I think of it as an affair as well as just sex. In fact, I think being emotionally involved without sex would probably hurt me more than just having sex with a woman. Maybe I'm just too traditional but I believe that your husband/wife should be your best friend and biggest confidant. Whenever something big happens like I get a scholarship or an A on an exam...the first person I think to tell is my boyfriend and that's how (I think) it's supposed to be.