I don't think the blame should be laid on your mom like that Miss A. She is the one in control of your life right now. Her and your father. They are the ones to make most decisions for you. You are 14 right? You are still a child and live in your parents home. My son acted out like that and I kicked him out at 17. He had quit school and would do nothing but lay around all day. still he was so close to be 18 that I had no choice in my decision at that time. I feel for parents with young children these days. You should be ashamed of your behavior. just my 2cents worth.