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Originally Posted by mad molly
he said he wanted to help me get through this as im going to be seeking medical advice, but seeing it has made him flip and now he has gone.... after smashing holes in my walls ....
i am so hurt that i trusted him and now he has done this... it felt like he enjoyed seeing me so weak when i was crying and apologising to him and telling him i didnt want him to leave me... normally i am so strong you see, and so in control of my emotions, until this morning... and he seemed to be enjoying seeing me so out of control and begging him not to leave me and help me through this... he was saying he doesnt know if he can or if he even wants to now... asking me questions that he knows i have no answers to until i seek professional help....
anyway just thought id share that with you...  thanks for reading
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Hi Mad Molly,
What a mess ,
Im sorry this happened.
you are not responsible for him punching holes in your wall . He has his own rage problems and you did not cause them.
You might try this.
Go back to your thread and see what the other posters posted about thier SO's regarding how an SO should handel recieving the diagnosis of the sufferer. If that was even what the post was about.
some may say some negative things about their SO or yours or how they should respond and that could have triggered his response.
Just a straw grasper.
Im guessing something he read made him feel like he was responsible for your diagnosis. or contributing to it.
There is a poll above your post . I do not know who put it there . I'm finding it very hard to answer. I don't agree with any answer.
I was brought to begging . I guess maybe I should not let anyone I beg near or get to me . . and they did not cause my begging. I have to take responsibility for what causes that in myself.
My mother begged when she was beaten. That must be it.
what are your thoughts.
Take care, of your self .
I know this hurts REAL REAL BAD.
Patricia