I have to say, in case I haven't made it perfectly clear, that the major part of my "ick" factor is that this is someone she's known since birth. If he were a stranger, I'd probably still have misgivings, but those are their issues to deal with not mine.

I can look at the young people that grew up with my own children and appreciate that they've become very attractive young people. But even though I can see their beauty, inside and out, I do not view them as people I would be interested in romantically or sexually. I find say... Usher very sexually attractive, but out there I'm sure that someone in his life that he's grown up with that sees him as plain old Usher and does not understand the hype.