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Old Dec 06, 2009, 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by salukigirl View Post
totally agreed auroralso. A lot of people don't think of emotional involvement as cheating but I think of it as an affair as well as just sex. In fact, I think being emotionally involved without sex would probably hurt me more than just having sex with a woman. Maybe I'm just too traditional but I believe that your husband/wife should be your best friend and biggest confidant. Whenever something big happens like I get a scholarship or an A on an exam...the first person I think to tell is my boyfriend and that's how (I think) it's supposed to be.
I agree with this post. My exhusband cheated on me first with a emoitional affair. It devestated me. This woman knew everything about me, and everything about my kids. He wasn't even sleeping with her yet. I'm not positive, but I'm pretty sure that he sent her roses. One time I went to the store, and when I came back he was on the house phone telling this woman he loved her. I flipped out. The only reason that I know that she wasn't sleeping with him at the time, was that she was living in another state. I don't know what happened to that relationship, but he soon found another woman over the internet, and now they live happily ever after. The best thing that ever happened to me, is when he walked, and stayed out of my life. auroralso it's not your fault, but just be very careful. A lot of people out there just don't care about hurting another human being.
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