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Dec 07, 2009, 11:53 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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LOL cypher. As rocky as my marriage was, my ex tells me he never found anyone better in bed. Trust me, I know how to make a man smile from ear to ear. 
True, when I first started dating my husband, I was a bit of a prude. He had no idea how many cold showers I had to take after our dates.  I did that because I wanted more than sex. I wanted the opportunity to fall in love with ALL of him, and I did. I'll never forget the day when I gave him my heart. It knocked his socks off. 
As a result, our marriage is strong. He knows I would never spread my legs for another man, and I know him well enough to know he'd never cheat on me. 
When my son got his driver's license at 16, he asked a 15 y.o. girl out on a first date. When he picked her up and she stepped into the car, the first thing she said to him was "Wanna f***?" 
Casual sex is fine, but it's on the same level as masterbation - just with a partner. It doesn't even come close to the power of sex with someone you love with your heart and soul. That poor girl my son asked out on a date will probably never know the power of love - or self-respect.
It's not mandatory to care about the welfare of future generations, or other people for that matter. It's not mandatory to consider the consequences of what we do. I just wish more adults would act like adults instead of refusing to grow up and acting like horny teenagers. 
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