From what you said, at least three things may be relevant to his thinking:
1. Relationship needs to be improved.
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3 days later he said he is not prepared to set a date as our relationship is not good and he wants at least 2 months of normality together.
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2. Fear of marriage.
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It seems that he is terrified of marriage...I think his fear are not rational.
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3. Ex and her children (Are they also his children? How many?)
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He is divorced with an ex that is conniving and manipulative and children who live with her.
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How important are each of these in his thinking?
Do
you think that the relationship needs to be improved?