yes knowleged is power.. and" Fear is the mindkiller"

But we have to overcome our fears or they will end up hurting us worse than anyone else can or could hurt us..

So take you time, Eye contact is one of the hardest fears to over come when you have low self-esteem.. Trust me I know

PS. ( I still can not look my finace directly in his eyes)

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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