I am in a toxic relationship. I feel like my life is a rollercoaster ride. We get along great for a day or so and then we fight. I have bipolar and BPD. The 2 of those combined is rollercoaster enough.
I lived alone and single for about 4 years. Then we bought a house together. I did great and was enjoying life as a single mom. I gave up therapy cause life was good. Ever since I moved in with my partner, I have changed my meds and started seeing a therapist again.
Anytime I try to end it, she goes nuts and I give in. I don't want to give up my house. The house is big enough for us to live in comfortably in our own separate rooms. Any suggestions on how to either work it out and get off the rollercoaster or convince her it's just not working?
The relationship doesn't struggle because of me separately, she contributes a great deal. She is very rigid, follows the rules and a little controlling.