Bill3:Hi. Yes, I think the 3 categories are there. I also think they inter-link. I think that because he is afraid of full commitment, having made such a terrible mistake marrying his ex, he is looking for faults in our relationship.

Yes, the children are his and he is a great dad.

Of course all 3 are important to him. And to me. But I think his fear is what drives him.

I do not think the relationship needs improving (though I always strive for more and think that everything can always improve). This is why I feel so sad when I think of leaving. But I also feel promises should be kept and I am hurt..