Yay! ((((((Turquoise sea)))))). Would talking to your guy be helpful about maybe not ALWAYS being on such a late schedule? I mean, you talking. I doubt he would care what I have to say We have had a little of the same problem here, just other way around. I tend to go later than my hubby if I'm not carefull. Eventually he just passive agressed himself to where I notice now that he is suffering until I go sleep Honestly, talking might have gotten us here 15 years earlier. Huggs, and I hope you have a good time with your friend!