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I think a more important question for you is how important is this relationship to you? If she is a very close friend and someone whose friendship you want to keep, then what Lenny had to say to you is about right, imo.
If you feel strongly about what she may be about to do, and damn the friendship, then say what's on your mind to her, perhaps even warn your children about her. I think in the end, more harm will come to her, and possibly her poor children if they become involved in this relationship.
If this is a very vulnerable young man and she is being predatory, I would tell his parents and maybe the father of her children, anonymously if that feels most comfortable for you.
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