ok l am sorry for just blurting all this out but here goes

after 14 years of an abusive marriage l told him to leave ..........couldnt stand no more he sees the kids at the weekend. He left the house , the debts , the mortage everything. ok so we will et through this we knew it would be hard..................l am just finished one job but they held back my money which was a long stort to it..............then he didnt pay any money for the kids said he has other stuff to sort out..............then he phones to say he is quitting his job and can l write the letter for him.............ermm well no l cant and then he phones to say he wants the car back its in his name but that is after he has made me pay a further insurance installment which is now a waste of time.
my pnurse she said she would help................has she NO in fact each appointment just before she is due to get here there is a phone call saying some crisis has come up............... something / someone more imporatant to sort out............. the phone never stops ringing , the tax credits/ government are not interested the claim is 'being processed'
i have no T cus she quit...........pnurse supposed to be doing referral to new one but she aint done it.............no appointments with pdoc for months and no money to pay for next months drugs.
l am due to start a new job but the crazy thing is l need money to gt to work its too far to walk

so...............he is not at the house no more, nor is he paying for the kids or anything, in fact he has just quit his job l believe so he wont have to pay or maybe l am just being cynical..........................but if this is what happens when you make the abuse stop its no wonder that people just dont do it.

I am sorry that this is all spilling out today but its been a very bad bad day