Hi Toller. Sorry to hear your going through such a tough time. Sounds like you could use a friend. I had a question, when you say she didnt like some stuff during sex, and it became restricted thats odd to me. If she knows you were sexually abused when you were younger which im so sorry to hear about(HUGS!!) That doesnt sound good if she has a sexual prob with you. Victums of sexual abuse have difficulty with intimacy because of what they have gone through. Is She reading up on stuff? Infi to help you and her and understanding. Maybe she has not educated herself on this. What concetrns me more is the sarcasm though.Is that recent or was she always that way?