Certainly you would be hurt after you purchased a dress and looked at venues twice. I'm really sorry that you've had to go through that.
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3 days later he said he is not prepared to set a date as our relationship is not good and he wants at least 2 months of normality together.
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Are you now in his two months? When did they start?
Do you think that he interested in continuing to live with you (unmarried) indefinitely? Does he still seem to feel that he cannot live without you? Can you normally rely on him (other than when it comes to committing to marriage)? If yes to these, then perhaps individual counseling for him could help him figure out and overcome the obstacle.
You've been waiting a long time, and, more recently, been hurt as well. It sounds like you might be thinking about just how long you are prepared to wait for him. How were you feeling when you were away from him?