((((hugs)))) to you Ophelia!
I agree with serafim etal as well. You are around perimenopause age, which may (or may not) have brought "the change" closer. No fun at all.
I've had more than my share of feminine troubles as well, which does suck

! But... we are Oh SO WISE in that important area as result. My comfort now comes with sharing my experience, in hope to help other women. Hope that can help you too!
Shez