Thanks everyone. I have dated guys who were intimidated by me making more money or getting better grades/opportunities and I don't think he is like that. He has said he will proudly be the stay at home dad while I bring home the bacon haha

When he started talking about it with me he did get really excited. So much so that he has already started looking for jobs and houses lol. So I think it was just a fluke that he didn't say anything the first time.