((((Roman))))
Thank you for your post and I think it was a very good question. So many times a song will play and I will think back to past times. I wish that they were good thoughts but I have to admit there really is none. So for me I mourn the loss of a childhood that never was.
And sometimes I hear something and it will take me back to days when I wish I would have done something to help myself. Like tell someone or get help or something. Other times I hear something and wonder why?
I am now starting to create something good to remember when I hear a song. I can connect it to a here time that is safe. That is what I choose to think on. When a song from the past comes on, I tend to leave myself for the moment.
Thank you again for the post. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts.

dps