Thanks everyone for the encouraging words.

I just got some more news a few minutes ago. I don't understand why the ex thinks he is special and can ignore the legal system. About six weeks ago we got notice that we had five days to each send in $500 for a guardian ad lidem. I mailed mine in but never got the proof of payment that I need to give to the GAL so she can get her investigation under way. He went and hired his own lawyer instead. It's past the point of a lawyer. It's the GAL's decision now, so I don't understand why he did that.

I have to contact my lawyer and let him know. He told me that if the ex failed to pay his half, he needed to report it.