Thanks Echoes, ophelia.. Echoes, I really like your map analogy.. thinking about it like that helps a lot. I guess the fear is partially that the label borderline will stick and stay with me forever. But it's not, it's not that, is it?

Thanks for the reassurance guys.. I really need to calm down about this.. I need to distract myself, stop thinking so much about this.. feels like I can't get it out of my head but you guys made me feel better about it.