Hi,

Well the sarcasm thing I think is inherent with her. It's always been there but it seems to have got worse. I noticed that her mother is exactly the same it seems to come out as an automatic response. Though her father and sister are not like that at all, they are great in fact. I think she picks up a lot from her mother. To be truthful I am not good with relationships at all. This is the only best one so far. But she really confuses me with things she says and does, I think it's maybe because she is so hypocritical and sarcastic. She will say one thing and do another and complains about most things. She wasn't as bad when we first dated. It only seems to get worse now. I tried talking to her in the hope it will make her think about things and not just come out and say hurtfull stuff. But I don't think she can learn.

I don't know if I am better off with or without her, but I don't think I can live with her tone and attitude. I know I can't be doing with that. It doesn't help either that I am going through a rough time and feeling pressured. There are times particularly when I feel pressured that I need to be on my own, I can't be around anyone, I need to get away. I told her this and she doesn't understand it at all and made things worse by doing the exact thing that makes me this way by badgering me and putting pressure on me to explain it. I don't need to tell her or need her to understand it. I just need her to accept it. In a way I feel trapped and I need an exit, a way out. The more she gets on at me the more she pushes me away.