Yes it is upsetting when any member leaves especially when we have known them a long time.

I'd like to think that the ones that leave run off happily into the sunset, singing as they go but that isn't realistic.

It is even more upsetting when you know the member may have made an unwise decision or has left because they felt they had to. When infact that might not have been the case.

In my opinion, if you are triggered and thinking of leaving, wait, give it time, don't close your account.