I don't think I really felt that intimacy of making love until pretty recently. My last boyfriend was the first one I ever felt it with and my current boyfriend. But before my bf and I were together for about 3.5 years but for the wrong reasons. And when we broke up it was because I realized that if we weren't together we probably wouldn't even be friends so it was all wrong. But my current boyfriend I genuinely enjoy being with and that really makes a difference in how it feels.