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Originally Posted by cypher
Or go in the complete opposite direction and have anonymous, no-strings sex so that there's nothing really riding on your performance. This might free you up. You don't have to be a slut, just sow some wild oats without the weight of romance for a change.
Maybe this would relax you and build up your sexual confidence for when you do find that special someone. A little experience before marriage is not a bad thing. Just another option --  Mike
PS -- Full disclosure: I'm probably in no position to be giving advice on this subject, I admit. I'm working on my own stuff --  . Good luck though! |
god i wish i could do that, i'd love to dive headfirst into casual sex, i'm sick of sex being so difficult. but it would only work if i never saw the guy again if i had performance issues and if that guy couldn't get into my social network and spread the word. seems possible but i'm not sure where i can do this safely, would love more advice..