I'm paranoid that he's being all sneaky now and trying to make everything I do look incompetent.

After 14 years, he's all of a sudden taken an interest in the kids' health. It's like his lawyer is telling him to beat me to this stuff to show he's better than me. Thing is, he wants me to clear medical appointments with him beforehand, but he didn't tell me he had physicals scheduled until I mentioned that I needed to make an appointment. What's with the double standards?

The Sunday before 4th of July, a plate broke and I threw it in a plastic bag that was hanging on the basement railing. I didn't take it out to the garbage can right away and my son walked past it and cut his calf on a piece of glass. I had to take him to the ER to get it looked at because it was gaping open. it wasn't deep and quit bleeding, but I figured I should have it looked at. I immediately felt like the ex would take that info to his lawyer to prove that my house is unsafe.