I got into a fight with my ex. through text messages..
I didn't know him very well. And during the fight I found out he was pretty mean and nasty.
I sent him a message saying "okay, well don't ever talk or text me agian. this is goodbye. i dont' play well with theives" then I got like 27 messages from him and many of them saying that I needed him, and that HE was the one that was being harrassed by me, and I needed to stop texting him. and he turned it all on me, so I didn't text anything back. then his 25th message said "your windows have no locks on them, someone could really break into them easily". and then the 27th message said "you'll be sorry!"
Then when i texted back saying "STOP TEXTING ME YOU BIG BABY!! YOU ARE THE ONE HARRASSING ME! YOU ARE NOT THE VICTIM HERE!! NOW STOP IT DA** IT!! I sent you 2 messages, you sent me 27, who's the one harrasing here?!" and then his girlfriend texted back using his phone saying i was crazy, and he only texted me a few times and she was there, so i needed to leave him alone and move on. and oy! I have text message history in my phone proving otherwise.. She doesn't know what she's talking about..
Anyways there are recent hand and finger marks on the outside of my windows like someoen was trying to open it, and now i'm super paranoid. I don't know his real name, only his alias, and i don't know his complete address. I have pics of him though.. and he's illegal here in the united states.. I want to know how can i get a restraining order. He has a kid here, and I don't want to rip him away from his child, because i think he does support her. I'm just so shakey and scared right now..
I know it's my fault i never should of fallen for him so quickly and moved so quickly with him, and i know I should of broken it off quicker, but i didn't..