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Dec 09, 2009, 06:27 PM
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Member Since: Aug 2009
Location: Limestone, Maine
Posts: 29
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sunrise
Roxanne, I'm not a guy, so I won't chime in with my opinion. I'll just ask if you have considered seeing a family therapist for help with your relationship issues? Either individually or with your husband? Best of luck.
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I have indeed thought about it, quite a bit in fact. The problem is that finding a family therapist where I live is nearly impossible. We don't have any means of transportation, and rely on my parents for the transportation, so going very far isn't really an option. I will say that we've talked about, 'well, what if we get into a situation where we're at the point of divorce?' and I know that he's also more than willing to do so. However, I feel that if his father dieing is the root of his emotional unavailability, then it's an individual thing for him. I mean, I am going to support him more than anything, however I feel that the problem goes deeper than just us.
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