Started dating at 40, my boyfriend 41, in April 2009 and he told me he loved me the first time he saw me. He always made me feel so good because he took better care of me more than anyone ever has. It was nice to have a guy that cooked, cleaned, best intimate person who made me feel like I was the only one who mattered. Within 2-3 months he wanted me to tell him I loved him. August we starting fighting, he was getting jealous because in my career I work and talk with a lot of clients, male and female. He started calling me awful names, saying very cruel things and when I told him to leave he spit in my face and said he wasn't leaving. I started to cry because I have always been a strong willed person and I was scared of him. I broke up with him a week later because I couldn't accept the fact of what he had did. A week later I let him come back because he made me feel like he was really sorry for his actions. He told me that he had never been jealous but his last relationship of 7 yrs ended because she cheated on him. We made it a couple more months but ended it a month ago because it is extremely exhausting. I blocked his emails, phone calls and anything else I could think of because I didn't want this relationship anymore. He started seeing a therapist to get help with his jealousy. I know that I care for him a lot more than I realized and I know for a fact that he loves me. Can he get over this jealousy and learn to trust or do you just move on and hope you can find someone who really loves you without the issues?