AMEN! it sounds like your anger is totally justified, kd. be angry as long as you need to. and i totally agree. how dare they????
but remember, here we don't want to take away pieces of you, we want to help you strengthen the pieces you have. ((((((((((((((kd))))))))))))) i'm so sorry you're having to deal with this b/c it's really crummy. Hang in there and know that you are important to all of us here.
-shadow