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Dec 10, 2009, 11:00 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2007
Location: Land of Endless Possibilities
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Hi Countrygal!
You *know* what does not work. So might as well stop that esp. the screaming & yelling. It just does not help or develop a positive or loving relationship w/ your son. True? Which I'm assuming you would like to create & develop. 12 yrs old. is a pivotal point it's the beginning of the teen years. He is going through a v. difficult time. He is still a child but his body is changing into an adult.
Have you tried 'Catch Him Being Good?' Yes. When he does something right or well, let him know that! For example his chores done well, not being told to do..., helps family out, being thoughtful, etc. Be sincere, genuine, & authentic, very important, & not to be over done.
May give you the opportunity to sit down and have a heart to heart talk (w/out raising voices). Talking & reasoning w/ your son may help you out, Best Wishes!
Season's Blessings,
Holmes
Last edited by mlpHolmes; Dec 10, 2009 at 11:19 AM.
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