I think that there are always dirty old men but I do believe people can (and do) change. I used to be somewhat of a........hussy......until I had that experience of feeling really intimate and close with a guy. Maybe they don't change their thinking but they might learn how to control their actions better.

I honestly don't think I'm more than average in attractiveness but I get hit on all the freaking time. It's really annoying. One time I was in Manhattan, KS smoking outside a bar and a guy came up and put his arm around me and started hitting on me and I had to punch him in the chest to get him to leave me alone!

Who knows why......men are men lol

I don't really see anything wrong with wanting to feel good about yourself with feeling like someone is interested in you. That is, as long as they're not being inappropriate about it. Even though I love my boyfriend to death, it's still nice to have a guy check me out or it might boost my mood to think a guy is interested in me. But that's because I would never act on it.

I think that in a society that says men aren't supposed to feel sexy like women or they can't dress up and make themselves look good like women. We have an amazing power to look hot no matter what we look like without make up and dresses. Any girl can look gorgeous with enough time and effort. If guys go through a process to look good they're called gay or talked about. So I really don't see a problem with guys finding ways to feel good about themselves y'know?