THIS POST NEEDS TRIGGER BUT HAVENT FIGURED OUT HOW ON PHONE SO PLZ BE AWARE THIS INVOLVES SEX AND SEX ABUSE THANKS ok im A surviver of sexual abuse at the hands of my father. there are things that I never noticed were problems til I got in my later twenties. I was always able to pull my body separate from my feelings, as A survival tactic! now that im almost thirty I struggle with being able to enjoy and let go during sex. I dont have problem having sex but when it comes to being able to have A climax it is nearly impossible for me. I dont understand why, is this A mental block that I can work through or has it been A way of life to long to change. plz some one help me