Keep your chin up. People don't get that it's hard to be able to plan when your depressed. But it sounds like you have a good firend in your uncle. By the way, if he is able to answer people back like you wish you could, maybe he can give you some lessons No, really. Poeple like us have to take a day at a time, if not a heartbeat at a time. hang in there. I sympathise totally! Huggs