You are so good at describing yourself and your feelings. That is really refreshing!

My guess would be that she's scared. Everyone's scared when they start a new job and I can only imagine coming into a group therapy situation must be a million times more intense than some random office job. I would also venture to guess that so many of you being uncomfortable is mostly because she does represent change and it is taking you out of your comfort zone. I am sure that the staff listened to your opinions when hiring the new nurse, but I am hoping/betting that you will all come round and find she makes a good addition. Do you find yourself disliking new members who come for therapy? I think that once you get to know her, things will be different. And just because someone seems fragile, doesn't mean they will break.

You really did a great job of expressing yourself!