ahh so many people responded I don't know where to start. But he doesn't really come on PC anymore so I am not worried about him reading this, and we had a long talk about all of this last night anyways.

His wife does know about me Tishie. We have talked before she is very nice. She doesn't mind that me and him talk.

I am just confused right now. I don't want to cut off all connection with him. I am not ready.