Thread: I'm Confuzed
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Old Dec 11, 2009, 03:55 PM
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(((((livingmiracle)))))) all parts deserve to have time out. Our pray for you is that the one you are with is truly as accepting of you as you say good luck.

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All I have heard for years now is that I must remain me. I am not allowed to switch, like there is any control to it, but I have learned to put a mask on when doing so. My littles know that when mother and sibling is home they can not come out because we would all get in trouble and it would turn out badly. So once they are gone for the day, its literally a free for all. Even my T has backed this up. I am so very confuzed now though. My guy is telling me to let them out around him. He said that hes in love with a bunch of girls and even a couple of guys so he deserves to see what he is in love with. He has a good point but I am so very confuzed and I'm looking for some guidance here on what to do cause clearly I'm lost. Should I trust him like he says too, or should the real we stay hidden?

~So Very Confuzed

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