(((treehouse)))

reaching out is always a good thing. You told your friend and H--this will probably help them to understand you a little more.

at this point i dont have any advice to give, but to take care of yourself...if you have some time (i know you have a house full of kids) make some tea, curl up with a blanket and watch a movie. I'd suggest going out for a walk (cuz i kno you like being outside)...but im not sure what the weather is like where you are, where I am it's freezing and i'd sure enough would rather NOT be outside with the biting winter air...