do i have the d&c done to get over the pain and bleeding or just let nature take its course since its already started? this is breaking my heart, this baby was suppose to make it this peanut had heart beat three wks ago and now i have to make the decision of a d&c or not.........either way life isnt fair and im not sure what i want, im in severe pain and bleeding alot but thats where my precious baby was for nine short wks and im not sure i want to give it up yet....i know i cant hold on forever but im not ready to let go yet....someone please help me make piece with the decision i need to make before tomorrow morning.....