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Originally Posted by lmg103
because its interfering with my love life. I feel like I have someone who I love, but technically I don't. He has a wife and kids, he has someone who he loves already. But I am going through a rough patch where I need someone to love, but can't find the right person. I feel like he is taking that place,
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I think you just answered yourself.
You feel like he is taking the place of what you wish you had .
There is nothing wrong with, wanting ,wishing, dreamng and hoping.
It helps if its put in a direction where one can get ones needs met .
Take notes of what you like from this friendship and hopefully you will find it in someone else in real life.
If you need to separate stop talking or leave a place do it .
He has a family and a life you don't but deserve one.
Women are very loving emotional beings . It feels good to love and its nice to have it returned .
In the future you might ask yourself if its worth sharing all which is intimacey .with a married man .You do have a "relationship" Relationship is about levels of intimacey . we are all relating here . We all have a level of relationship .
maybe you like the individual attention you have been getting . when one gets a note or something more than just sharing open on a forum its changes its level of intimacey as in getting closer.
Patricia