from personal experience i would say the chances of it working out are slim.
i remember about a month after i turned 18 this chick at my work started
showing an interest in me. i was a telemarketer and she sat diagonal from
me. we hooked up a few times in the bathroom but a few days later i came
by her desk to ask her something and i saw all kinds of pictures of her
husband and a few of her kids too. i had no idea she was married and i have
to admit it wasn't a heartbreaking experience, but it still stung. one of the
few times i actually felt dirty. i broke it off later that shift (haha by text
message, that's how much of a coward i am.)

she was 35 at the time and i had just turned 18.