Pat ~ I know that seems like the best thing to do, but it would be the one thing I think that would make me the most uncomfortable too. I feel as long as we are in the same house , we can keep communicating . Whether it be thru talking , yelling or whatever. I just dont do well with the loss of communication. I know we will both put forth more effort if we are here together than if we are apart too. So as long as it can stay this way. This is how I want it if at all possible.

Thanks~
Bethy