I keep the scars hidden well with clothing...i do it in places that can be covered easily so I don't know if she will ever find out because I even wear shorts with my swimsuit....However she is my best friend and I feel like I need her so I am probably going to tell her I just don't know how exactly...I may try doing it in third person thats one idea...thanks....I'm thinking about going to visit her this weekend so I may tell her then and I'm really scared...doing it over the phone and in person is two different things....wish me luck!