tree, you are AMAZING. thank you so much for coming here and sharing this with us. You say that you "like to be a supportER more than a supportEE" but you are giving me so much hope and courage, by reading what you are going through. Knowing that if you can do it, maybe I can, too. Knowing I'm not the only one going through this ***** right now.
You CAN do it. You ARE doing it. I'm so proud of you.